{"id":2308,"date":"2013-07-18T10:00:42","date_gmt":"2013-07-18T14:00:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.au\/blog\/?p=2308"},"modified":"2020-02-27T03:32:45","modified_gmt":"2020-02-26T16:32:45","slug":"facebook-parties","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kaspersky.com.au\/blog\/facebook-parties\/2308\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop Facebook Parties from Going Wrong"},"content":{"rendered":"

It used to be that high school kids spread the news about a party at the house of someone whose parents were out of town\u00a0 by word of mouth. Cell phones surely made it easier for kids to tell each other without worrying about a parent answering the phone, but nothing has made it easier to get the word out than Facebook, through which teenagers can create an event and send the notice to friends.<\/p>\n

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And just as these illicit gatherings have always invited party crashers who don\u2019t know the student whose home it is and who don\u2019t care about the home itself and who, instead, just want to have a good time, the same is true today. Except that just as Facebook makes it easier to spread the word, it can invite more party crashers than ever before, causing a party to quickly turn into a melee \u2014 especially if the teen who creates the event doesn\u2019t restrict its notice to just his or her friends. This may be an oversight or, as recent studies by the Yale School of Medicine<\/a> and Temple University<\/a> have shown, it could be because teens are prone to risky behavior and have a low level of concern about the consequences of such behavior. It doesn\u2019t just happen in movies- the most recent incident we are aware of happened in the UK in June, but every month there\u2019s a similar story from somewhere in the world.<\/p>\n

Just as Facebook makes it easier to spread the word, it can invite more party crashers than ever before, causing a party to quickly turn into a melee.<\/div>\n

The most troubling news for parents is that it may be the kids who they least expect that do the riskiest things \u2014 the quiet ones, the introverts, because those are the ones looking for social acceptance. As a result, they\u2019re likely to take greater risks to get that social acceptance \u2014 including inviting the whole world to a party at their house while their parents are away.<\/p>\n

Such realities are part of the growing pains of children and parents alike, but there are some steps that parents can take to mitigate these dangers.<\/p>\n

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  1. Friend your kid. They may not like it, and it won\u2019t be a cure-all (since they can still text and Snapchat to their hearts\u2019 delight), but insisting that your child be friends with you on Facebook will help you monitor their activity and let them know you\u2019re watching.<\/li>\n
  2. Engage in mutual risk analysis. When you leave town, assuming you\u2019re leaving your teen behind and alone, impress upon them the values of the various devices, furniture and other valuables in your home, including the invaluable, sentimental items.<\/li>\n
  3. Finally, and perhaps most importantly, is to supplement the \u2018friending\u2019 technical approach with a robust parental control suite, like Kaspersky Internet Security<\/a>, which monitors, limits and blocks kids\u2019 online activities, including their social media activity and blocking the transfer of private data.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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